congrats!!

all this talk is so confusing to me as i've NEVER charted and always managed to get PG so quickly (much to DHs disgust, lol! he never gets to "try!" so in a few point forms, if i was wanting to attempt for a boy, whats the best way?
*no sex for around 4 days before O (to determine this, is the best/only way to chart?)
*increase potassium/sodium intake (bananas, pineapples, grapefruit juice)
*deep penetration/womens orgasm first

thanks

forgot to mention, i look at your charts and they just look sooooo confusing