Aw Lisa that's rough hun. But seriously, does your sister expect you to stop DTD just because she is getting married??? If I did have a sister, I'm not sure what I'd do in that situation.
Hi ladies, thanks for the replies.
My sister is not aware of the fact that i am ttc, and in her text last night she asked whats the hurry, my sister and i are very close, so close infact that i look after her son one day a week for nothing, although since her partner has been ill, we have drifted slightly.
Im 31, i want a big family, i cant afford to have really big gaps between kids, i love my kids and want nore, man i feel like i have to justify why i want to have kids.
I suppose i will just have to see what happens, when its that time, of dtd.
Its just really put me out of sorts emotionally, i was quite aware of the dates conflicting, but for her to tell me, it just upset me, although she wont see it that way.
Lisa, i told you my thoughts last night. Personally i wouldnt wait..... HOW you would be stealing her lime light i have no idea as she will be the bride, she WILL ahve everyone's attention.
Thanks bec, my hubby is now saying she is selfish and is peeved at her, like i was saying to kel tonight, i may or may not concieve this cycle, but if i dont give it a go how will i know? And if it takes me ages to concieve will i then be saying what if it could have been my time back in jan.
I just really cant believe how stressed i am over it.
Its so stooopid.
Well ladies im going to bed to sulk, its Emmersons first day at kindy tomorrow so i have to be up early. night.
that's rough hun. But seriously, does your sister expect you to stop DTD just because she is getting married??? If I did have a sister, I'm not sure what I'd do in that situation.
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