Hi ladies, thanks for the replies.
My sister is not aware of the fact that i am ttc, and in her text last night she asked whats the hurry, my sister and i are very close, so close infact that i look after her son one day a week for nothing, although since her partner has been ill, we have drifted slightly.
Im 31, i want a big family, i cant afford to have really big gaps between kids, i love my kids and want nore, man i feel like i have to justify why i want to have kids.
I suppose i will just have to see what happens, when its that time, of dtd.

Its just really put me out of sorts emotionally, i was quite aware of the dates conflicting, but for her to tell me, it just upset me, although she wont see it that way.

ahhh......................