I have a question that may sound naive but here goes. We are ttc, this is cycle 3 and this time I used opk, it showed I O'd and so we BD'd alot, pre & post O. My af is due on Sun so I tested this am with one of those early detection test and got a BFN. How is it that you can O and have sperm there to meet & greet with some follow up guys for back up and still not be pregnant? I have been pregnant twice before, both times first go with no extra attention like opk. Sadly 1st pregnancy ended 2nd tri, mmc, no cause just wasnt meant. 2nd time our GORGEOUS DD, who is now 18mths. I guess I am anxious because I am 38yrs old soon to turn 39!

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Lola