Becstar hun, only the planets and the moons know the answer! Sometimes it is catch 22 you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. It is hard, because on the one hand, you might have to live your life knowing that DH wasn't entirely sold on the idea of another bub, and probably would have been fine without him/her. On the other, can you go the rest of your life without another? Therin lies the answer.

therefore, I would go for it (but that's just me). Men can procreate their entire lives, and don't feel the same urgency that we feel. We only have a fairly narrow window of opportunity to make up our own minds and convince the men to play the game.

Good luck hun with whatever decision you come up with,