Please post here! cd43

[Jas]

Hi,

Not really sure what I want to know to be honest but I thought I would post what is going on and see what you guys think?

So DH and I aren't ttc #2 just yet. We will most likely start in July but I have rejoined with fertility friend and have started taking a bit more notice of my cycles. Noah is 9.5 months and af came back when he was about 3months and I must have had about 5 or 6 af's so far, so fairly normal length in cycles. All I know is my last cycle was 34days in length and this cycle I am now on cd43 I have had af time pains for probably AT LEAST 10days now but no sign of af perhaps implantation? Also still getting a fair amount of cm for this late in the cycle. Just editing to add cm is the stretchy kind sorry for tmi

I did a hpt on monday night at cd41 and it was bfn it was a first response test with noah I got a bfp at 11dpo 1st time I tested but it was fmu. But I thought at this stage any time of the day would pick up a positive result anyway?

The thing is I haven't been taking note of ovulation or anything. With Noah we got preg 2nd cycle off the pill and so I had only just start taking note of the length and not doing much else. So I have no idea of ovulation day. Also I don't know when we had sex and if it was unprotected.

I am sorry if that is offensive to anyone because it is somewhat careless but I have chosen not to go back on the pill so we use condoms and now we have been using nothing when I know its late enough in the cycle or right after af to be safe. The thing is it's not our intention to get preg but at any stage if we did become pregnant we would both be very happy!

Anyway I asked dh last week if we had unprotected sex recently (couldn't remember because sometimes we use condoms anyway if I don't want the clean up effort sorry for tmi) and he said yes. So if this is just my normal cycle that means I would have ovulated later and may have dtd unprotected around o date.

I am just wondering what is going on? The cramping has eased a little in the last couple of days so almost felt like I have had af kwim except no actual af. I don't have to horrid 20times a day at least vomitting from 3weeks preg like last time yet, no sore bb so hmm what is going on???