couldnt of said it better myself. RELAX!!!!!!!
It doesnt matter how many kids you have, its always the same apprehension (s) when falling pregnant. You do need to relax and not think about it night and day because it wont happen till you stop thinking about it. Just knowing how your body works and when you ovulate is all you need. Bd like crazy when you ovulate and let nature do the rest.
Good luck.