sorry to hear its taking so long, so very frustrating! I guess the answer has a lot to do with your families - are you particularly close to both sides of the families?
On the one hand, if you mention you're TTC and having difficulties then you may find out some family history which may help.
On the other hand, if you don't mention you're TTC and are wed, then the pressure will just grow as your marriage matures, as people expect kids within the first year it seems.
I did mention to my parents we were TTC so it wouldn't be a shock - but at the time we weren't married so didn't want to let them think it was an "accident"! (like DH's family did, cause he didn't want to tell them we were TTC)
Maybe if you have a close sibling, confide in them? So you have that support, but also someone to say "lay off with the questions" at family gatherings?
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