For me their is 20 months between dd1 and dd2, and 18 months between dd2 and ds. It took a little while to get into a routine with two. I think it was about 5 weeks before I went out on my own with two. But we got the hang of it eventually. The girls have the same routines and both go to bed at 7.30 which makes it easier.

Going to three has been the biggest adjustment, but I was out on my own within a week this time.

We find it hard to get out and about with just two adults to big events as it's hard to give all three attention. It's getting easier 6 months on but it was exhausting in the beginning.

We planned dd2 to be so close but we wanted to wait another year with Ds but he was already on his way.

I love going out with dd1 and Ds with the 3 year age gap, it's so much easier as she can walk beside the pram and is able to get herself in and out of the car.

But then they all play together and giggle and I know it's worth it.