i have just under a 3yr age gap and honestly it has its good and bad bits

my DS1 is very not jealous but is very whingy, doesnt like me feeding DS2 and just in general hates how much attention i have to pay on DS1, if i have spent ALL morning with DS1 and then need to attend to DS2 he gets very cranky and screams and he didnt completely understand a new baby was coming but we just try and encourage him with his brother ALOT and do alot more 'grown up' things with DS1

I found it much much much easier the second time around as you are not as jumpy/worried as the first time you are much more relaxed

im wanting number 3 and wanting abit smaller of a age gap