Hi Emmy and Amanda - thought I would put my two cents in.

My DH and I tried for a while (5 months seriously - charting etc + a few months of no b/c) with no success. I went to the doc (GP) and ASKED for a gyno referal. Whilst she did say "It takes the average couple 12 months etc etc" I stood my ground and said I REALLY wanted a referral. We found out that DH has swimmer issues! So he started taking "menevit" and we saw a chinese herbalist. I also had a pelvic U/S and blood tests at gyno and all looked good at my end - which reduced my stress and gave me hope. Three months after DH started his supplements we got our BFP!!! If I had waited, we prob would still be trying.

So to cut my long story short - you don't have to wait if you don't want to! It could be something "simple" to help you get your BFP and save all those stressful months. Just ask your doctor and don't take no for an answer.

Goodluck to both of you and I hope you get that magic BFP soon.