Kate - I don't think you're nuts. I agree that it'll be hard work (but, then, it's hard work no matter when you have your kids, I reckon) but, you're right. When they are older it'll be that much eeeasier! You do come out the other end with a stack of rewards!

It's definitely each to their own and I think it's wonderful that those of you who would like kids close together have the courage of your convictions and just go ahead and do it despite all the negative comments. Good job!!