Gee im surprised at all the mums that are or where in the same frame of mind to have more kids.
I thought it was just me, lol. Famous last words.
We are considering ttc #3. I worry that we will disrupt the perfect balance that we have with our kids now. They sleep well, get on well, arent a prob to take out. Just adorable kids basically. Will the 3rd child fit in just like the 2nd one did, which we had concerns about having to. I certainly wouldnt send him back for kwids.

My concern is that DS is only 8 months and if we fell now (AF hasnt returned yet mind you) he would be 18mths old say so would he still be ok. I think at that young age they still require a fair bit of attention and id be scared i couldnt give him all that he needed. Am i makeing sense.

Its a huge decision to have 1, 2, or 6 kids, and i do agree thats its a decision that only you can make. But i think the decision is deep down, you are just scared to admit it and say it out loud. As i am the same.