I think that is where I'm at- we'll be happy either way but maybe it's worth doing just to see. I thought it over yesterday. I considered PGD and decided I don't want a girl that much. I really do see us with a boy so to ensure we have a girl seems too much for us. If we don't try gender swaying and have a boy though I guess I could be left wondering if perhaps we would have had a girl. I guess I've realised that I think I'll have less gender disappointment if we try swaying because then if we have a boy I'll know it was just meant to be