TTC & Gender Swaying #5

**Olive** · February 20th, 2008, 07:00 PM

hi ladies!!! i dint come in here very often but have a question, we would love another girl but i feel funny about 'messing' with fate, i know this will sound very wierd but i have been told by a clariovoant i would have a boy and a girl, id love to gender sway towards a girl but scared about playing with 'what should be', i dont mind at all if we have a boy, just love another girl.

anyone help me

**Miklaoz** · February 21st, 2008, 06:40 AM

hi ladies!!! i dint come in here very often but have a question, we would love another girl but i feel funny about 'messing' with fate, i know this will sound very wierd but i have been told by a clariovoant i would have a boy and a girl, id love to gender sway towards a girl but scared about playing with 'what should be', i dont mind at all if we have a boy, just love another girl.

anyone help me

I am on brain mush mode, (10 weeks BFP) I am not sure what your question is.. I think your asking should you or not.. Am i right? (gwad i am hopless.

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I went to a Clarvoyant a few years ago and she told me i would have all boys and be married to my ex..

Well not to be...... So take it with a garin of salt and do what is best for you. I guess if you did not want to mess too much you could just DTD on the nights beofre O.... That was your signalling to fate that you woiuld prefer a girl, but your ok with whatevercomes... As longs as it is pink

(kidding the last bit.

When do you plan on trying? How exciting!

**Olive** · February 21st, 2008, 05:57 PM

thanks miklaoz. you pretty much got what i was trying to say!! thanks again!!

**myson** · February 22nd, 2008, 02:36 PM

Hi AJP. IMHO you make your destiny. But thats just me. I believe that YOU decide what YOU want in life and YOU make it happen. No sitting around letting others make decisions for you. And if that 'other info' you got is supposed to happen, well then I guess it just will happen no matter how hard you try to get what you want ... wont it...?? Go hard... thats my motto!

Miklaoz. I am 6DPO and only cos I overruled FF. My decision, due to freezing cold aircon and sleeping with mouth open (deviated septum from waterskiing crash). But I could be wrong... anyway, its doing my head in with all this waiting.

DG 6DPO now and counting... when are you testing? i am not even going to buy a test until 14DPO, cos if its in the house before that I will use it early. No SELF CONTROL when it comes to POAS.

wow. just reread my post... boy do i sound pushy and assertive today... thats not usually me. Hormones I suppose.

**Diamond Girl** · February 22nd, 2008, 03:04 PM

Hi Myson. I will try not to test until 14DPO, but I will probably cave and test much earlier (ie; when the irrational me takes over).

**myson** · February 22nd, 2008, 06:21 PM

I get you, DG. Crazy me will probably sneak out and buy some tests asap without sane me even realizing. Then she will leave them lying around for sane me to find.. she knows I wont be able to help it.

My chart is starting to get a bit interesting!!!!