Thanks Slyder for your encouraging comments. I really don't want to go over the top either. i don't want to be one of those couples that has to change their lives around ovulation. I would just like to stop taking the pill and continue on with my life as I do now and see what happens. I am just scared If I obsess about it all the time then the stress of it all will stop conception from taking place, which I heard is very common.

I feel like this is a weird thing to ask, but we normally have sex (which I think you called it BD'ing) every second or third day anyway. I normally have mid cycle pain, which I have been researching and i think that may be a sign that I am ovulating. When we begin TTC do you think that its ok to continue on with that routine? I don't just want to just make love to my husband to get pregnant. I am very mindful of his feelings and I don't want him to think I am just making love with him to get pregnant. AM I being silly? Told you i felt weird asking you this question...