Hi Girls,
I can't speak from experience as we are on IVF so no pressure for us in that way - however alot of our friends talk about this and one male friend said to me one day "She thinks its a performing bannana!" made me laugh - i agree with the other girls and just from what friends say - don't talk about timing just make it as romantic and hot as possible and you will get him in the mood - just leave the timing part out - it makes them feel that they MUST perform or else and makes them feel its all up to them - lets call in performance anxiety shall we. Anyway this is just what i have picked up from friends that have been TTC for years.