I don't think it is selfish at all! It sounds like you and your DH have had a good chat about it and are happy with your decision, so go for it!
We do things for us, not anyone else. So don't let anyone try and tell you that you are doing the wrong thing.
Listen and take on board what you want but discard the rest
I can't really talk about how the kids interact (one being "gone" and the other still gestating) but on the physical side, my body seems to be handling this pregnancy quite well. There was about four months between me giving birth to Ianto and getting pregnant with Cookie, so less than you've said. My muscles in my belly are a touch sore (all the time!), but that might just be normal pregnancy pains rather than related to the closeness of my pregnancies. I say if you want it, go for it!
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