To all TTC'ers & nearly TTC girls,

(Mods, sorry if this is in the wrong forum! Please move it if it is!)

Do you know if you are going to find out the gender of your baby in your 2nd trimester (when you can find out) or will you wait for the birth to find out? We are really considering finding out the gender but then there is the other side of it where we are hesistant to find out as we might be spoiling what we will find later, as a surprise that should have waited....

It does not matter whether you have a baby boy or baby girl, as long as Mum and bubs are healthy that is all that matters to me (and i'm sure all women out there!) However lately, with us TTC very soon and all, we've been talking about if we are going to find out the gender of the baby or not... we don't think we'll be able to stop ourselves from finding out!!!

I will want to plan the nursery and the clothes colours, and the toys etc etc and instead of receiving all white or green or yellow clothes, we can have pink clothes for eg..

I guess it's not easy to find out when you have your bub turning around in the womb not facing you so you can't see it's private parts... but if you could find out ... will you????

Has anyone found out the gender of their baby and then soon regretted it as they wished they had kept it for a surprise after a painful delivery???
What are your thoughts?