Will you leave it as a surprise or not??

[Shanti]

yeah it's a tough decision to make I think!! We're so up-in-the-air about it all! We'd probably end up not finding out but it will kill me just waiting... I suppose once the baby is born you can go shopping to get all the clothes (in between feeds and changes!!). I would just be worried that if i find out, i'll regret it ! LOL don't know why...
picking names would be easy as then you could focus on just picking a girls name/boys name only......its also making use of technology these days!!! ppl years ago didnt have the luxury of finding out!
And knowing me i'll buy a few clothes in pink and a few clothes in blue! If it's a girl, we can always sell the boy clothes or give them away

I hope you get a very soon!!!!!!!! xx I hope i'm not too far behind...

[Sequoia]

Before my MC I was adamant I wanted it to be a surprise and I really wanted a girl, but would have been happy with boys IYKWIM.

Now I've had a MC, I feel like I would want to know as a way to make the pregnancy more real, now I don't care if it's a boy or a girl, just a healthy bub.

DH wanted a surprise before and still would like a surprise now.