I hate surprises, I am the kind of person who likes to be organised and always know what's going on, so I would be dying to know the gender! But DH is adamant that he doesn't want to know. And I couldn't keep a secret so I will have to just put up with not knowing when that time comes...

Most people I know who have had a baby recently or are PG or TTC have all decided not to find out.

But,like you, I know I will want to go out and buy lots of clothes and have everything ready...and not all in 'neutral' colours.

At least you and your DF are in agreement with your indecision, not on totally opposite sides like me and my DH!