Hello...we had our first 3 months ago and we didn't find out the sex. the reason being was that I wanted a suprise at the end and I didn't want to find out and then regret finding out. I always thought that then we could find out for the next one. Now...I don't want to find out for the next one either as the best moment of our DDs birth was finding out that she was a gorgeous girls. We did a bright nursery that could be used for both genders and in a way I am glad that we have some gender neutral clothes for 2 reasons - everything else is now pink (not many other colour options for girls) and when we have the next one, if it is a boy we will still have some clothes that he can wear too. Just my opinion but I remember it as being spectacular and it makes me smile everytime!