I admit that I haven't been TTC for as long as a lot of the woman on BB and the very first time I have fallen pg has ended in an early m/c. This was very hard on me emotionally and I have felt rotten because of the obvious amount of woman who have been TTC for years with no success. Following the news of my m/c I have tried talking to a small number of selected people who have gone through loss or have had problems TTC.

I've learnt very quickly that when someone tells you to "relax and let it happen" you feel like that is the last thing you want anyone to say to you. You just shrug them off and tell yourself that they have NO idea of how you are feeling or how very bad you want to have a baby. It got to me yes but no matter how many "just relax" I received from people, the one and only way in which I could actually relax and not thinking about having a baby constantly was to be honest and open with myself and believe that one day it will happen, just not today, or maybe not this week or maybe not even this month but all I can do it try and not allow it to consume my thoughts.

It hurts having to wait and wonder when my time with come and I am so sure that is how every single woman on here feels while she is TTC but think positive and remember that the only time that it will happen is when you are happy, healthy and your mind is set on good things and not stressing with the thoughts of "why can't that pregnant woman be me" or "when is it MY turn!".

All of the women (and men?) on BB are absolutely beautiful and you will become a parent one day. Keep your chin up and remember to be happy! It is hard but it will get you though!