Personally, I think anyone who thinks all it takes is to "relax" or "get drunk" or "go on a holiday" has never had trouble falling pregnant I have quite a few women at work who have told me how the above statements worked for them and keep saying things like "not pregnant yet? You need a holiday" I find this really hurtful and shows a lack of understanding for the heartbreaking nature of ttc for month after month. Whilst I can acknowledge that stress probably doesnt help, telling me not to stress about it (as so many people I know feel entitled to do) isn't helpful either. Just my opinion though.