Wow i could have written your post Emma! same weight/eating issues here, and very low motivation.

I'd be happy to buddy up with you if you like for support?

I have made a few changes already, swapping flavoured milk for green tea..... not sure what else to do because diets aren't really my thing, i need more of a lifestyle change than anything else.

And on the exercise front i plan to either do a walk each day with the boys or if we don't manage to get out time on the treadmilll of an evening.