Thanks hun. I think it was more when she said something like how we're setting our kids up for habits like ours etc etc. I would hate to think of one of my kids being as overweight as what I am. It is funny, you spend so much time making sure they eat good, balanced meals everyday and leave yourself til last for so long. When I was a single mum, my kids would sit down and eat awesome home made stir fries that were loaded up with so many different vegetables etc and I would eat weetbix as my budget only stretched as far as providing nutritional meals for my kids. No more! Things have changed and I don't have to eat like that anymore and do eat what my kids do but I have also realised that I need to consider myself as well as my kids. I need to be healthy for myself AND them