Nah berme, my friend didn't / hasn't lost weight ad yet.

Keike - I can understand your thinking there (about how to lose the weight). For me personally it was kinda like saving hard to buy my first car; I took far more pride and care of my car when I bought it, compared to my friends who had theirs bought for them. Sometimes time / patience can be a factor - depends on the real motivation behind you wanting to lose it eg - ttc. Just do what feels right for you Hun, I'd be 100% behind you no matter what decision you make .