That's a bit rough. Things like toys shouldn't even be relevant, aren't they just interested in whether the actual house is damaged etc?

I agree that a lot of them think they are all that, when they are only real estate agents for crying out loud.

Maybe contact her and explain the situation nicely and ask if they can do it again when you are prepared.

I doubt it's grounds to kick you out so try not to worry about it, you know the reason it happened.

My Dh has been overseas for 3weeks and my house is a bomb site and I only have one kid