Same here too and I'm so sick to death of it. I've tried so many different things and nothing seems to work/help plus I've got two kids that now refuse to settle/sleep day or night so I'm slowly going crazy too. Over the next day or so I'm going to organise a plan of attack and set a little housework job each day like monday is vacuum/mop, tuesday is sheets/washing etc. I'm hoping that if I only have one job to do each day I'll get a bit more organised. I'm starting tomorrow by cleaning my house from head to toe before DH starts back at work. It's a huge task but like you I'm so sick of having a messy house and being so unorganised. I'm not deluded at all I know it is going to take weeks to get organised and into a routine especially doing dinner. This is my new years resolution - maybe it can be yours too and we can all help each other.