Hi Ladies,

'on the SBS show on Tues - genes are only 1% of parenting the other 99% is up the parent that are raising/loving and nurturing that child'
thats reassurring I've been having this argument with my SIL for a couple of years now and she believes the opposite she has stopped now only because she knows it upsets me so much but I've worked in long day care for going on 12 years now and I whole heartedly believe that this is the case. thanks Lissie you've made me feel better anyway.