I am just starting to consider donor egg and I don't know all the in's and out's - but I wasn't even thinking of importing it - but doing the whole cycle in the US if we go that way. I don't know what this would mean and that's what I'm starting to explore. Would we make a trip over that would involve DH leaving some sperm at a clinic there - then they'd fertilize eggs over there and freeze them, defrosting them when it is right for my cycle's timing - at which point we'd need to make another trip over at which point they'd do an egg transfer? I just don't know anything about it.

I just can't deal with any more of the obstacles the government here seems to be wanting to put in the path to a baby for those of us who can't conceive without help - it's just too much for me at this point. I don't see how any law passed here could prevent me from doing this if it doesn't involve importing anything. What do you know/think about this?

I have so many questions about this path (many of which have nothing to do with the process but rather the emotions and feelings involved with the donor egg path) and I don't even know how to articulate them as they are all still fuzzy to me.

After 3 trisomies, I do think I need to start thinking about alternatives to my own eggs - not that there are many....either stopping TTC or Donor Egg. We will probably do a few more ivf cycles with my own eggs, but I want to start getting my head around the Donor Egg path in case this is where we end up.