Laura, I have an opinion and as much right as you. Maybe there is no partner around now but who says she can't share this with a partner any time soon. Wow no need to be so aggressive and defensive.....I made it clear I was not here to judge anyone. And by the way...I was single once too so I know how it feels to want something bad no matter what age and situation but I have life experience and know I found it easier to have a family with my partner so was just sharing my opinion which the thread was suggesting!