Hi SubiGirl,

I totally understand your need and want for a child but cos you ask for opinions here is mine. I am not in your boots and I am not at all judging you and in the end of the day it is absolutely your decision but.....I think it couldn't hurt to wait. I am not saying forever but perhaps a year or more. Mr Right or the right partner to share this massive and wonderful responsiblity could just be around the corner. Yes you are young but so is 30, 35, 38....I do not question the love you would have for your little one but the decisions you make now will affect your future and to share this with a supportive and wonderful partner could just be one more year away I applaud all women who do this for themselves and be the sole parent voluntarily and others not always voluntarily but sometimes the most important question you need to ask is " Am i doing this for the absolute right reasons and will this be the best outcome for my child physically, mentally and emotionally?." Good luck with your decisions and keep exploring your options.x