That's so true about how you said how the teachers don't or can't love our children, it's more a like relationship.
It breaks my heart when I hear my mum say how some of the kids in her class (yr 3) are little sh*ts and are terrible to deal with, she finds them so difficult. I mean, I can understand it would be hard as a teacher dealing with that as so many parents seem to put the schools and teachers in charge of their kids when it doesn't work that way.

I worry that if my DD1 goes to school that the teachers would find her loud, talkative, too sociable, ask too many questions etc and she's super confident and talks like a 4-5yr old!! Everyone she meets is shocked when they find out she's actually only 3. What I am saying is that I feel teachers at school would want her to "quieter down" and "stop talking so much" etc which would dampen her spirit. These are all wonderful qualities she has!! School would try to make her conform to their expectations. I don't want that for her....

I think school teachers would like those kids that are naturally "quieter" and "sit still longer" as they would help the flow of the classroom... does that make sense? I get all of these impressions from talking to my mum as a teacher AND from thinking about my school days and how the teachers labelled me as a "class distraction" are you kidding me??? I am a social butterfly.... nothing wrong with that