Hi Nadine

As you know I lived in SA for a time, the thing is when your child is school age she will go to a mixed school as I don't think there are any segregated schools anymore (correct me if I am wrong) and once she gets out into the big wide world she will be dealing with people of all races, religions, backgrounds, etc so I guess integrating her from a young age is showing her what the real world is all about.

Good luck with your DH, (men there a stubborn bunch aren't they - but that's another thread in itself).

Laurin x