Need Advice...

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I'm big on kids staying mainstream. But honestly only you know what is best. Perhaps you could trial option 3, mainstream with you home schooling as well?? I mean its the best of both worlds then and they get socialised at school still. Schooling is such a tricky issue, even when kids don't have a disability with all the bullying that goes on and luck of the draw with getting a half decent teacher. Good luck with your decision hun...xo