I think I want DS to learn, most of all, that other people are just as important as he is.

That way, he knows he is important. He values respecting others, honesty and politeness. He cares about the opinions of others, but not so much that it will pressure him into things he doesn't want to do.

I also want him to embrace and show Christian ethics - to truly love others for who they are and appreciate them.
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Couldn't have said it better. Honesty and respecting others are very important and I try to drum that into my kids every day.

I must say it is very disheartening and downright sad the looks of surprise I get when my 3.5y.o. says thank you, you're welcome or excuse me. When did manners stop being important?