biting is quite common at day care, so i wouldnt worry about that (even though it isnt nice it does happen). if it continues to happen, you could then ask as to what steps they are taking with the other child (if it is the same child doing it over and over again).
as for the incident, i find it a little wierd that you were told something different to what was on the incident report. it leads me to believe that no one actually SAW it happen just put two and two together to figure out what most likely happened. if it were me i wouldnt be very happy about that, but i wouldnt go in guns ablazing cause you only put the staff off when you react in that sort of way. if it were me, i would go and ask for clarification again, question the director as to why you got two different stories, probably leave it at that and then if similar occurances keep happening i would think about changing centres.
as for them not believing that your child felt picked on and being hit.. well that isnt really acceptable. she should have been more accomodating to you and your childs feelings. in truth, there isnt much they can do, exept talk to the group as a whole reinforcing acceptable and explaining unacceptable behaviours. they should have believed you and taken you seriously.
Last edited by 2CheekyMonkeys; March 19th, 2009 at 01:58 PM.
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