Thanks for the replies. I'm still in 2 minds as to what to do. If we pull DD out of this centre then we lose our childcare that I rely on for a bit of "me" time before DS is born in July. Childcare is hard to come by in our area, so I want to be certain that we're making the right decision. I don't want my DD hurt in anyway but I don't want to over react either, if that makes sense. It's really the only opportunity my DD has to socialise with other kids.