Maybe give catching a miss for a while and concentrate on teaching the cue sound first, so if you notice your DD weeing or pooing then make the psss noise so she learns. I totally understand the stopping thing though, DS did the same.

Oh and it's normal to have wee and poo on the floor or couch or your lap even months down the track LOL. Some day you count catches some days you count misses - be gentle on yourself, it's not "weak" to go back to nappies part time to take a break if it gets hard.

Also, DS never EVER cued, until he was about 14 months and even now it's patchy. We used timing - maybe try that for a while? So I offerred when I felt he needed to go (like after a nap, or 15 mins after a feed etc).

It's been a while since you posted, how are you travelling?

Tish
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