Tish - I think that's a good idea, she needs to learn the association first. I think I'm just gonna dedicate certain times of the day to practise, rather than being glued to her, staring for invisible cues :P
I'm good, was away for a while due to feeling sorry for myself, and busy moving house. Now I am happy for myself and in a great new home. So all is looking up!
Mayaness - Yes, I'm definitely going to keep using the nappy, and will hopefully become very fast at getting it off and getting her on potty in time.
Thanks for your advice guys, I feel encouraged and much more motivated now! I'm sure DD and I will get the hang of it, slowly but surely.
Hooray for beautiful bare bums.