My DH is an emotional abuser and I had no money/car/house but I still packed up and left ASAP. Call Centrelink and find out what support and money they can give you, also Housing Trust can help you with finding a place to live/give you bond money. Do you have any family or close friends to lean on for support.
Leaving him right now doesnt have to mean leaving him forever either. DH and I are still working hard to get things back on track and have a healty relationship and it is taking a long time to get there but progress is being made. Dont be scared that you leaving has to be forever cause it doesnt. If you both love each other and are prepared to do the work to fix things it can be worked out. My DH took 12 months to actually agree to counselling and admit his faults and work on himself, so it may not happen overnight, but it can happen.
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