Hugs hun
Is snail mail an option? Write a short note, go a 'burb or four away (any rellys interstate?) And post (no return address?)if hes done some bad stuff then maybe warn her or if you cant leave it be. Its hard I knoe. Hugs
Ta I could do that - I like the going a few suburbs away idea. I have a feeling he would still know it's me though... I've kept everything really minimal on facebook and no profile pic etc just to be safe but you just never know what info is available. Yes, I'm paranoid!