Tinks, I've JUST decided to do that, accepting all invites for a month Are you stalking me? In the past, before I know I'm gonna do it? That is SO Back To The Future

Freya, you're speakin mah language sister I never even invited anyone to help me choose my wedding dress, I didn't think anyone would be interested. I think it's a bit low self esteem with a touch of reverse tall-poppy syndrome thrown in. I see all my friends with kids and travelling and just so mature and sophisticated, and then there's grubby lil me who doesn't do the housework often enough and frequently burns the dinner and doesn't have kids. They're always surprised when I tell them they look just so together all the time, mostly they laugh in disbelief

I think most adults feel the same way. It's funny, I never felt like a kid, I never ran around and did crazy stuff, I was always told I was very mature for my age, and at 25 I'm still told it - but I feel less mature at 25 than I did at 12. I think we're all scared little kids inside, some of us just fake it better than others I guess