BJ, I have the very same regrets, I had DS at 22 and I really thought I was more than ready to start a family. In hindsight I wish I had of travelled and partied more and then had DS in my early 30's, however there are so many positives to having had him at a young age. DH and I are looking forward to life as DS gets older and eventually when he moves out, we have a lot of overseas trips planned out already LOL I will only be 40 when DS is 18, I think 40 is still young, in fact I think 50 is stillyoung!

You have plenty of time to travel and do things that you feel you mised out on ove the last few years. It wont be long adn your kids will be htat much older and you will have so much freedom all of the sudden.

Your time will come, it will just come later than some others