Hmmmmm, I'm not sure. Actually I've thought about this today, since I shaved my hair off last night. People say it looks really natural, like it's who I am. Makes me wonder, since I have had long hair since I was a child. What is my appearance is relation to me? Am I now 'showing' who I am, have I been 'wearing' a mask in my appearance all this time? Am I changing, hence the change... so many quesions... That doesn't answer but at least you know that I know what you mean.