Sometimes we don't have exact groups to fit into, so we try to fit in as close as we can get. For instance, there's no specific LTTTC with Recurrent Miscarriage and multiple Late Loss group, thankfully. It doesn't actually matter if you don't understand the IVF lingo. Whilst many of the LTTTC'ers use IVF, not all do. It's not just for talking about cycles. It's there as an emotional support too.

Do you have any hobbies? Gardening, sewing, crafts, exercise? Maybe we have a group there that you can join in on. Pets, for example I'd love to have 6 dogs. Do you live on a farm?

I'm not someone who has ever been fussed about socialising with work colleagues. Things like that can hurt if it's something you value. Do you have other friends to hang with IRL? Do you family on your side to support you? Your in-laws aren't worth your energy.

I hope you feel welcome here. Feel free to join on any thread that interests you. Sometimes it takes people a little while to respond directly but all constructive opinions are valued.