Yes I have. It's almost like as though he doesn't care about it. He tells me I'm being stupid and "of course they see you as part of the family!"

It's been going on since Christmas 2011. We were really close with my BIL and his family, and would spend most weekends at their place....but shortly after this Christmas went by we stopped getting invites to their place.

Not long after Christmas 2011, I got a phone call from BIL's wife telling me she was pregnant (with their 3rd "whoopsy"). We spoke for hours on the phone that night, laughing and carrying on.....then we didn't hear from them again. Next time we heard from anyone on my husband's side of the family it was for my nieces engagement party. At the party I felt like no one wanted me there, everyone was having conversations and talking LITERALLY around me...every time I joined a conversation the backs were turned or conversation changed.

After the party it was complete silence for months and months. BIL's wife has baby (July 2012), we hear about it via a photo on FB BIL posts. I made a comment on the photo and get a PM from BIL and have a brief conversation with him, then silence again for at least another 2-3 months. September/October 2012 get a PM on FB from BIL's wife asking for my help with something. Help her out....no....work my ass off to do what she wanted my help with, then nothing again till I get a FB message with a RSVP for the Boxing Day 2012 party we were holding saying they will be there.

We then get a invite to BIL's place for Christmas day. We go to their place Christmas day, finish the day with "see ya tomorrows"...............they never turn up the next day, no message to say they won't be coming, no call - nothing. Have not heard a word from them since.