I can strongly recommend Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus. It's all about this type of behaviour men and women do, no matter what they are going through in their life. It's not a funny send up of the differences between men and women, it's very real and has saved my relationship. Things will be very different after you read it... I finally understand how to communicate and help my man do the same, especially what to do when they are in this 'cave'.