I am good enough, and always do my best. Not the best, but my best. And I can aim to improve.

I measure myself by my standards. I would like to dress up for a home made 3 course gormet meal every night. But I accept that pizza is sometimes what I can do. And that's ok. No-one died from having pizza as their main meal every now and then.

I don't care if Mel or Mandy or Marie do or say something else. They are not me, with my life and my journey. They do their best, I do mine, and we can support each other rather than saying that their best isn't good enough.